Article: She’s Just Not That Into You.

With the new movie “He’s Just Not That Into You” out in theaters and the book of the same title gaining more attention than ever before, women and men who date men are getting loads of advice on how to know if a man is “just not that into you “and what to do when they realize this to be true. But what about the billions of men and women who date the fairer sex? Where do they get advice about how to know when a girl just isn’t quite as into a relationship as they are? The correct answer is: RIGHT HERE in Cat’s quick list of telltale signs that she’s just not that into you. Ready, set, self-deprecate!

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Article: 9 Killer Tips to Attracting Women

So I’ve been tracking some common search terms on my site and recieving similar questions in my inbox, so I thought this article was in order. This article is all about how to attract women and make them find you irresistably hot, which is perfect because we all know your ugly ass is single again this Valentines Day. Now before I even go into this, I must say to take these tips with a grain of salt. There are a myriad of women out there and they all have their own idea of what they’re looking for in a man. Now this won’t allow you to get every woman you ever wanted, but it will make you stand out in a crowd. Let’s face it, when it comes to dating, women have all the power and if you don’t intrigue them in the least bit you might as well be their brother, because they won’t find you sexually attractive (this statement may not hold true in the Southern US, where some women may find their brothers sexually attractive).

So, let’s hop to it fellas.

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Article: Top 10 Tips For Internet Dating Success

With the fast-paced world we live in, dating on the internet is becoming more and more popular among people of all ages and walks of life. Of course, some of the old stereotypes about internet dating persist and those Dateline specials sure don’t help the cause. However, internet dating has been done safely and successfully by millions of people worldwide.  Sure, your friends may josh you a little, but if you find Mr./Mrs. Right who really has the last laugh? There’s no harm in exploring your options, and internet dating may be just the ticket.

So, whether you’re too busy at work to hit up the bar or you loathe the singles scene with the passion of a thousand suns, here are a few tips for those of you ready to take the plunge (or at least dip your toe) into the internet dating pool. Buckle up, it’s gonna be a sexy ride.

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Is it a date or just coffee?

Yoliqua asks:

I’ve been seeing this girl… well, it’s more like I think I’ve been seeing her. That’s probably where most of the problem lies. I like her and would like to date her, but I’m not sure where we stand. We’ve done lots of date-like things (dinner at a restaurant, drinks, movie on a Friday night, made me dinner at her house, etc.), but I really can’t tell where things stand. Are we just good friends or is there something more there? I’m generally pretty good at reading body language and nonverbal cues, but she’s a bit more shy than I’m used to and she’s got me utterly stumped. I know she’s interested in girls, but is she interested in me? What’s the best way to figure out where we stand and make it clear where I’d like it to go? Any good ideas for some subtle (but clear)ways to show her I’m interested in more than just being good buddies?

Marvin: Sounds to me like I might be a little gay because I’ve done all the “date-like things” you’ve mentioned with some of my male friends. What does that tell you? Two things. One, that I’m a jerk for calling you out and two that in order to let this girl know you’re interested you’re going to have to be less subtle. Subtlety is not what you want here, subtletly is what’s gotten you this far already…which is to say, nowhere.

It sounds to me like you’ve either only ever been in relationships with men or have been more docile typically in previous relationships. I say this because, as a woman, your stereotpical gender role is to let men approach you. There’s no shortage of men who want to bone you on a day to day basis and you often know more than one guy who’s interested in you. Entering into this relationship means you’re going to have to be, for all intents and purposes, the man. What I mean by this is that you’re going to have to take the stereotypical male gender role and let this girl know you like her. Now that’s all well and good, but you already knew that. So what can you do to let this girl know you like her? Simple. Think of all the ways people have shown interest towards you in the past. Maybe they wrote you a letter, asked a friend to tell you, or said it outright.

When an attractive woman walks down the street in front of a brood of sweaty viking construction workers, how is it you know they’re interested? It’s because they make it obvious with their lascivious comments and cat calls. Now I’m not saying you should say to your girl

“Yo girl, I wanna bone you! I got something for you right here!”

Instead, try cute little comments that make her feel special. Pretty much everyone likes a positive comment about themselves. Try giving her a compliment about something she has control over like her hair, or her makeup, or clothes. Don’t go telling her

“Damn girl, I like your tits.”

 Try this instead

“Damn girl, your tits look awesome in that cardigan sweater and top set. They really bring out the color in your eyes”

You see? Compliment her on what she has control over. She doesn’t have control over how big her tits are(alright, maybe she does…bad example) but she does have control over what clothes she puts on in the morning. Let’s try another one, this time a better example.

Don’t say:

Sweet baby Jesus, girl, your booty is SO round.

Try:

Wow, you look cute in that outfit. I love those jeans! (They really accentuate your ass, which I want to drill unmercifully.)

 So, keep tossing out those compliments. They won’t hurt, believe me. But that’s just the start because she won’t really know you like her. We’re just building a foundation with the compliments, she’ll already see you in a good light and won’t be as nervous in perhaps starting a relationship with you.

So where do we go from here? I think the next step, which is subtle but still speaks volumes, is to hold her hand. There’s something about hand holding that makes it perfect for dragging children down the street but also perfect for indicating interest in someone. Even for two random people you see on the street, there can be so much intimacy in hand holding. This one’s not still scary but not too scary and it’s a good starting point. You can start off slow, maybe if you’re sitting together on the couch. You can just reach over and kinda play with her fingers or the area around her hand and then kinda work your way into holding her hand. You can tell a lot about the way she holds your hand too. If it’s kinda stiff, she may not be interested and a little freaked out but if she relaxes her hand and even holds your hand and runs her fingers along your hand, that’s a good sign. (Hopefully this leads to making out, and if so…make sure to videotape it email me a youtube link. K thanx. )

I think the last thing you can really do to let a girl know you’re interested is to just grow some balls(figuratively…unless you’re into that sort of thing. It’s ok if you are, I don’t judge) and tell her. Seriously, this is the only effective way of REALLY knowing what’s going. If you tell her in person you run less risk of her hanging up on you or not replying to you but if you’re a little scared, you can also do it via email or phone. There are no set rules, just as long as you let her know. It doesn’t take much, a simple “I like you” is enough to get a conversation going. But it needs to be given the weight it deserves. You’re not telling her “I like pie” or “I like weeble wobbles, because weebles wobble but they don’t fall down.” You’re telling her you like her and it should have the same weight as “My grandma just died. (again?)”

Whatever you do, just let her know you’re interested. The last thing you want is her to meet someone else and losing your chance. The ball is in your court now and you have to shoot it to win the game. Yeah, it’s gonna be scary and a little difficult but everything in life worth doing is a little hard (that’s what she said.)

Good Luck.

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And remember feel free to contact me at: mail@ClickHereForAGoodTime.com if you’ve got your own question or hate mail. Let me have it (that’s what she said) !

-Marvin

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